1. THE DEPICTION OF WITCHES IN THE MEDIA OR OTHER FORMS OF EXPRESSION AS EVIL, UGLY WOMEN
All women are evil, ugly women sometimes. If you think you’re not at least a little bit occasionally, then you’re really not paying attention to yourself and your own inner emotions. We have our dark sides. As a witch, embrace it, make it your own, use it to your advantage, and by no means dwell on that side only.
2. VEGANISM AND WHETHER OR NOT IT SHOULD BE PART OF A WITCHCRAFT OR PAGAN LIFESTYLE
The two have nothing to do with each other. If you’re a vegan and a witch, then being vegan does not necessarily have anything to do with you being a witch unless you personally integrate it into your path. I’m not vegan. I’m a witch. I like some vegetarian dishes and I only eat meat twice a week or so. I could give it up completely. I will not, however, give up cheese. EVER! Still a witch!
3. ANIMAL SACRIFICES
There are ways to do this that are proper and improper. Not my thing, but I don’t disrespect those that do.
4. PEOPLE WHO ARE AGAINST USING ANYTHING BUT WHITE MAGIC
Not my thing, but I don’t disrespect those that do. To me, there’s a balance. I actually like a lot of white magic folk, and a couple of them could probably teach me something about working through issues more effectively in certain situations, as I tend to be hot tempered and react thus:

5. THE SPELLING OF MAGIC (MAJICK, MAIJIZZ?)
Magic or Magick (only because Uncle Al did it.) Other ridiculous spellings are pretentious and unnecessary, and looking for attention.
6. MEDITATION AS A FIX ALL FOR EVERYTHING
Er…what? Never heard that before. Meditation is a great tool that is a jumping off place for many, many practices and abilities. It isn’t a panacea though.
7. NECROMANCY AND WHETHER ITS OKAY TO FORCE THE DEAD TO COME BACK INTO THE REALM OF THE LIVING TO DIVINE FROM THEM.
Not all necromancy forces the dead to do anything. Most necromancy is just communication and honoring ancestors. If you enslave or force the dead to do things, I just hope you know what you’re doing. I don’t personally agree with enslaving any sentient being.
8. GRAVEYARDS
Graveyards are trendy these days. Everyone’s doing it. I have greater respect for those who go to graveyards to put flowers on their great-grandma’s grave, or leave a beer for some war hero than those who go just to get their dirt. The dead are not to be used any more than the living. Do everything with respect and I’ve got no problem with you.
9. THE DEPICTIONS OF DEITIES IN WORKS OF FICTION/THE MEDIA
Meh. I love Supernatural, for example, and they get shit wrong all the time, but it’s entertaining. If you’ve ever noticed, their myths are contradictory and not always flattering. Avengers/Thor, same thing. Entertainment, and some free press for the gods. This usually ends up with some schmuck going and looking up the actual myths and maybe finding a new spiritual path.
10. PEOPLE WHO ARE OLDER THAN 35, WHO CALL THEMSELVES YOUR ELDERS IN WITCHCRAFT AND DEMAND THAT YOU GIVE THEM RESPECT
I’ve never seen anyone demanding anything, but someone who clearly has been on the path longer than I have and knows their shit gets my respect. Some of those are younger than me (I’m 34). I think some want to help the community through education, but just have bad people skills. If you have to demand respect, then you haven’t earned it. That’s why I don’t demand it. I get respect from those who need something from me. And you know what? I will never stop learning. It’s the newbies who have to most to teach us, by asking questions, challenging our assumptions, and giving us a reason to hold ourselves to a higher standard. So, in order to get what I need from them, I make sure that I’m available, that I’m respectful of what they have to teach me as much as I hope they’re respectful of what I have to teach them.
11. Z BUDAPEST AND HER COMMENTS ABOUT TRANS* PEOPLE
Z seems to have created a negative legacy for herself by being hateful. I get that if you are going to have a tradition, you have a right to run that tradition in whatever way you see fit. But then if you go to an open and public venue like Pantheacon and think you’re going to check under everyone’s skirts to see if they’re sporting a genuine vagina, you’re being rather stupid. They have stem cell research that will both help trans people in the future get their sex changes and it will help her with her dementia. WIN!
12. NEGATIVE EMOTIONS AND PEOPLE WHO CONSIDER THEM TO BE BAD
Dwelling in the negative is not healthy. Let’s get that out there right now. It’s important to embrace your shadow, to deal with anger constructively, and to not bury negative emotions. People who hide their negative emotions get ulcers, suffer from depression, alcoholism, self-harm. It’s just no way for a human to live. I know people who also think they are “nice”, but are the most passive-agressive assholes you’ll ever meet. Balance is key.
13. PEOPLE ON TUMBLR WHO THINK THAT THE AMOUNT OF FOLLOWERS THAT THEY HAVE IS DIRECTLY PROPOTIONAL TO HOW CORRECT THEY ARE
::SNORT::
14. PEOPLE WHO SAY THAT SATANISTS ARE ACTUALLY CHRISTIANS IN REVERSE
[see above]
15. PEOPLE WHO CLAIM THAT THEIR GREAT-GREAT-GREAT-GREAT-GREAT-GREAT ANCESTOR WAS A WITCH, AND THEREFORE THAT THEY ARE MORE LEGITIMATE THAN ANYONE ELSE
Guess what, if you’re alive, there is a good chance that some ancestor of yours was a magic practitioner of some kind. The closer the ancestor in generations to you, the easier it is to contact them in order to get some teaching. If you are claiming some specialness just from blood and haven’t learned from anyone living or dead, you can’t really talk about being a witch. Witchcraft is a learned craft, something you practice, and do, and live. It isn’t handed to you.
BONUS RANT QUESTION: WHEN PEOPLE TELL YOU THAT YOU’RE NOT A REAL WITCH/PAGAN/OCCULTIST.
No one has ever said that to me. If they said it about me, I’m not aware of it. If they describe traits they think are required to be a Witch/Pagan/occultist that don’t apply to me, then their definition does not apply to me. I’m quite confident in my status as a Witch.





